Friday, November 9, 2007

November 9, 2007

-------Original Message-------

From: Dr Lisa Earle
Sent: Friday, November 09, 2007 11:30 AM
Subject: Re: Fwd: God's Coffee
...quite profound...must forward...thanks!

Love, LISA

> God's Coffee
>
> A group of alumni, all highly established in their respective careers,
> got together for a visit with their old university professor.
> The conversation soon turned to complaints about the endless stress of
> work and life in general ...
>
> Offering his guests coffee, the professor went into the kitchen and soon
> returned with a large pot of coffee and an eclectic assortment of cups:
> porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal - some plain, some expensive, some
> quite exquisite. Quietly he told them to help themselves to some fresh
> coffee..
>
> When each of his former students had a cup of coffee in hand, the old
> professor quietly cleared his throat and began to patiently address the
> small gathering ... ''You may have noticed that all of the nicer looking
> cups were taken up first, leaving behind the plainer and cheaper ones.
> While it is only natural for you to want only the best for yourselves,
> that is actually the source of much of your stress-related problems."
>
> He continued ...''Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the
> coffee. In fact, the cup merely disguises or dresses up what we drink.
> What each of you really wanted was coffee, not a cup, but you
> instinctively went for the best cups" ... Then you began eyeing each
> other's cups ....''
>
> ''Now consider this:
> Life is coffee. Jobs, money, and position in society are merely cups.
> They are just tools to shape and contain Life, and the type of cup we
> have does not truly define nor change the quality of the Life we live.
> Often, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee
> that God has provided us ... God brews the coffee, but he does not
> supply the cups. Enjoy your coffee!''
>
> The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make
> the best of everything they have ...
> So please remember: Live simply. Love generously. Care Deeply. Speak
> Kindly. Leave the Rest to God.
>
> And remember - the richest person is not the one who has the most, but
> the one who needs the least.




-------Original Message-------
From: Dave Ruden
Sent: Friday, November 09, 2007 1:49 PM
To: 'Dr Lisa Earle'

Pretty cool, but I take issue with the Coffee (for me Tea) cup analogy.
See, I don’t agree that the cup adds nothing to the enjoyment of the tea.
In the right circumstances, the cup can be a very pleasant but non-oral aesthetic which adds to the overall personal experience of the Tea-Time. Not because you can say I’ve got Good China or My China is Better than Theirs, but because the nice china for its own sake feels ‘good’ as an enhanced sense of civility, or perhaps better, formality.
So much for the coffee cup analogy. ;).
Love,
---Dave.

Monday, October 15, 2007

October 15, 2007

-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 10/14/2007 6:13:01 PM
To: Dr Lisa Earle
Subject: Re: Fw: Boogie Woogie!!

Hi Mom,
I bought another picture for my apt. This one is a simple modest landscape I saw in Walmart the other day. I liked it well enough, thought of a place it belonged, and it was on sale for about $12, so I bought it. It's not spectacular, but the photos don't quite capture its pleasure.
Talk to you later.
Love,
---Dave.

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From: Dr Lisa Earle
Sent: Monday, October 15, 2007 8:27 AM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: Fw: Boogie Woogie!!

Dear David,

What a lovely picture - so calming and peaceful....It reminds me of the time when you were about four years old and I asked you what you want to be when you grew up...

David:" I want to be a painter!"
Mom: "Why a painter?"
D: " I want to paint the world!"
M: "Why the world?"
D: "Because it is so beautiful!"

WOW, out of the mouth of babes... In case you ever find some little extra time, you ought to try yourself in a bit of art lessons, you might love it...

LOL, MOM

Friday, October 12, 2007

October 12, 2007



Lovely message from Steve *(aka Paul) Hirschhorn, Joschi's son...you might be interested...

Love, LISA

-------Original Message-------

From: Steve Hirschhorn
Date: 10/12/2007 1:05:22 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: [SPAM] Re: Emailing: 2005NBCPhoto_s.pps


Hi Lisa
thought it was my turn to send a picture or two.. these are the grandkids!
Andrea and I are off to Hungary and Rumania on business in a few days. We're hoping to stop off near to where Joe came from - Brasov? I wonder if we'll be able to do any tracing of family while we're there.
Hope you're extremely well.

Love to all
a&s

Thursday, September 13, 2007

September 13, 2007

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, September 13, 2007 8:52 AM
To: A A; Cathy Blumenthal; Carol Kelly; DAVID RUDEN; Ellen; Irwin Fine; Irene L Clark; Judy McClosky; MARK COLIN; Lois; Mathilda Nankin; merrie meyers-kershaw; Sepop; shirschhorn; tomberry; WALTER ROY
Subject: Fw: HAPPY NEW YEAR

WISHING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
A VERY HAPPY AND HEALTHY
NEW YEAR

MAY YOU BE INSCRIBED FOR A
GOOD AND SWEET YEAR

L SHONA TOVA

LISA EARLE and FAMILY

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

September 11, 2007

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Tuesday, September 11, 2007 8:59 AM

THOUGHT OF THE DAY:
"Nostalgia is a seductive liar." - George Ball
Love, MOM

Monday, September 10, 2007

September 10, 2007


We got a family Newsletter from Debbie (Aschheim) Weiss. Lot's of to doings, and she sends her love.

(LftToRt: Debie, Aviva, David, Robert, Daniel, Rachel)

Saturday, September 1, 2007

September 1, 2007






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From: drlisaearle
Sent: Saturday, September 01, 2007 12:15 PM
To: WALTER ROY
Subject: Emailing: scan.jpg






Dearest Ariane and Walter,
We just returned from Ft.Lauderdale, had a great time and are now enjoying a visit from my son, David. We will try and call you this afternoon to say "Hi" - hope all is well with you ...we are playing this attached precious CD, remembering Simon and my Halcyon days...
Lots of Love, LISA

Friday, August 31, 2007

August 31, 2007








I visited Julie and Mom in Lake Placid for a week. Had a great time. It's so wonderful to see them, talk at leasure with them, relax and enjoy the view, the swimming, being able to help out here and there. So nice.
More pictures below.
---Dave.







We went to a "little theater" play in Sebring, titled "Once Upon a Matress". Very fun.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

August 28, 2007



On 8/28/07, drlisaearle wrote:
We are spending a few precious days in Ft.Lauderdale, the Beach is wonderful - a true "Wish you were here" moment...It is great to see many old friends and relatives, spending some time with Lenny and his family, Cousins, Friends, reliving great memories of my "Halcyon Days"...

Love from LISA & JULIE

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

August 13, 2007

-------Original Message-------

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 5:19 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: RE: Simple German website

Since you are a stickler for precision, I really think, you ought to slowly do the individual lessons in the old book I gave you, you have come a long way with fluency, it should be relatively simple to study the language more analytical -actually, you would enjoy it, I believe, to know the exact forms and grammatical correctness. Why don't you discipline yourself for a couple hours a week, take time our and hit the book! One lesson of Grammar a week -try it!

How are you feeling today - no more headache? I hope so...

LOL, MOM


-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 8/13/2007 5:08:11 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: RE: Simple German website

"Da" is eine kompliziert Wort.
Danke fuer der deutscher Lektion.


-------Original Message-------

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 4:33 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: RE: Simple German website

"DA" can be used in many ways, depending on the sentence and its contents.
In my little essay it meant :"since".


In your question, "DA" ist "here" and "dort" is "there".

For example: "Das ist schon einmal DA gewesen = This has once already been here

And then: " Aber dort will ich gerne hingehen"= But there I would like to go


-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 8/13/2007 3:39:38 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: RE: Simple German website

Ist “since” ein andere Bedeutung fuer ‘da’?
Ich kenne ‘da’ – “there”.
Wo ist es?
Da (oder) Dort.


-------Original Message-------

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 3:01 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: RE: Simple German website

"da es sehr heiss war" = since it was very hot

"da das Wochenende mir die Gelegenheit gibt." = since the weekend gives me the opportunity


-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 8/13/2007 2:30:57 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: RE: Simple German website

Wunderbar. Welches Freunde hast du angeruffen?
Und bitte, erlaueterst du mir dieses grammatisch Bauform:
“…, da es sehr heis war”
und
“Da das Wochenende mir die Gelegenheit gibt, …”
Besonders hintsichlich “da es” oder “Da das”.
Ich verstehe klar deine Beteutung.
---D.


-------Original Message-------

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 12:34 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: RE: Simple German website

Lieber David,
D
Tut mir leid, das du diese Kopfschmerzen hattest -hoffentlich hast du dich erholst und fuehlst dich wieder wie neu :)))
Wir taten nichts besonderes, sind nur wieder im Schwimmbasin(Pool) geschwommen, da es sehr heiss war!

Da das Wochenende mir die Gelegenheit gibt, meine Freunde anzurufen (ohne Tarif), habe ich mit vielen meiner alten Freunde gesprochen und das ist immer ein Vergnuegen!

Bleib gesund! Viel Liebe, MUTTI


-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 8/13/2007 12:17:23 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: RE: Simple German website

Halo Mutti,
Dieses Wochenende war schlecht. Ich tat etwas (ich weis nicht) dass mein Achseln(?) geklemmt. An Samstag gab es mir einen streng Kopfschmerz. Ich nahm Migraenemedizin (half pill), und das half fuer rund fuenf Stunden. Ich nahm die andere Halb in Nachmittag. Das Kopfschmerz war noch mit mir an Sonntag. Ich blieb im Haus moistens.
Diese Morgen ging ich zur Chiropraktiker, und ich bin besser.
:(
Wie war deine Wochenende?
Viele Lieb,
---Dave.


-------Original Message-------

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 10:53 AM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: RE: Simple German website

Mach's gut...

...und wie hast du denn das Wochenende verbracht? Hast du dich gut unterhalten?

Alles Liebe von Deiner MUTTI


-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 8/13/2007 10:36:27 AM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: RE: Simple German website

Ausgezeichnet! Danke.
Love,
---D.


-------Original Message-------

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Friday, August 10, 2007 8:06 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: Simple German website

Try this one, Dave:


Super German Web Sites
A web guide for German, German grammar, lessons, food, German web resources, ... Elementary German Exercises • Catmom's Learning German on the Net ...
www.uni.edu/becker/German2.html - 81k - Cached - Similar pages
(Bratwurst.....)
Love, MOM
__________________________________________________________________________________


-------Original Message-------

From: Dave Ruden
Date: 8/10/2007 6:12:32 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: Simple German website

Hi Mom,
Can you suggest a German website that is oriented towards maybe less sophisticated speakers – perhaps a see-Spot-run children’s kind of site?
Love,
---Dave.

Friday, August 10, 2007

August 10, 2007

From: drlisaearle
Sent: Sunday, August 05, 2007 4:09 PM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN
Subject: Emailing: church with Laura.jpg


Laura, Ellen's daughter, went to Church with me this morning - she is only 11 and all grown up - wow, how quickly time flies...

Love, MOM

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

August 8, 2007

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, August 06, 2007 8:37 AM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN; Julie
Subject: Fw: Paul & Zack



-------Original Message-------
From: Carol Kelly
Date: 8/6/2007 8:17:17 AM
To: Irene Clark; Lisa Earle; Laura Messing; Peggy Girshman; Jan Shauer
Subject: Paul & Zack

Hello fans & supporters,

Here are some recent shots from Zack & Paul's week on the St.
Lawrence. Paul's father is in one of the shots too.

Smiling, we are....

Love,
Carol

Monday, July 30, 2007

July 28, 2007


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From: drlisaearle
Sent: Monday, July 30, 2007 5:00 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: [SPAM] RE: Emailing: DSC00407

Actually, most of the "Girls" do belong to my book club, but the picture was taken at Dora's Baby Shower for her first Granddaughter, a darling little 14 months old, feisty, little girl, now a toddler. But our friend Dora's daughter and son in law live in New York and this was the first time they brought their baby down here for a visit. As you notice, it was taken last Saturday!

I am thrilled to hear that you are planning to visit us! - Love, MOM



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From: Dave Ruden
Date: 7/30/2007 4:49:58 PM
To: drlisaearle
Cc: Dave Ruden
Subject: [SPAM] RE: Emailing: DSC00407

Hi Mom,
This got redirected to my “spam” email box and I just noticed it.
Is this your ‘book club’ group?
Love,
---Dave.


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From: drlisaearle
Sent: Sunday, July 29, 2007 7:24 AM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN
Subject: Fw: Emailing: DSC00407

Yesterday's Hen Party...

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

July 12, 2007

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From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, July 12, 2007 11:14 AM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: [SPAM] RE: Why


Good to hear from you and that all is well :))))

We are expecting Ricky, Shelby and little(not so little any more...)David momentarily for Lunch, so more later on, o.k.? The bouncing back began last week...

Bleib gesund und viele Gruesse und Kuesse,

MUTTI



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From: Dave Ruden
Date: 7/12/2007 11:18:03 AM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: [SPAM] RE: [SPAM] RE: Why

Danke!
Julie erzaehlte mir ueber Ricky und Shelby’s Besuch.
Enjoy it! (Wie zu sagen dass auf Deutsch?).
---D.


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From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, July 12, 2007 11:23 AM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: [SPAM] RE: [SPAM] RE: Why


Enjoy it ="Genuesse es"

Ich genuesse =I enjoy
Du genuesst =You enjoy
usw.=etc.

Love, M.


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From: Dave Ruden
Date: 7/12/2007 11:25:37 AM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: [SPAM] RE: [SPAM] RE: [SPAM] RE: Why

Also, genuesst den Besuch!
Was bedeutet “usw.-etc.”?


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From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, July 12, 2007 11:33 AM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: [SPAM] RE: [SPAM] RE: [SPAM] RE: Why

usw- an abbreviation for:..."und so weiter" (etcetera =etc)

Jun 30, 2007

THOUGHT OF THE DAY:

"When a man sits with a pretty girl for an hour, it seems like a minute. But let him sit on a hot stove for a minute - and it's longer than any hour. That's relativity." - Albert Einstein

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Jun 27, 2007

[I just love these little exchanges at practicing German!]


-------Original Message-------
From: Dave Ruden
Date: 6/27/2007 12:00:02 PM
To: drlisaearle
Subject: [SPAM] RE: Emailing: Miriam Lunch 001.jpg, Miriam Lunch 002.jpg, Miriam Lunch 003.jpg

Du hast die Mittagessenbild gefinden. Wunderbar!
---D.



-------Original Message-------
From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Wednesday, June 27, 2007 12:09 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: [SPAM] RE: Emailing: Miriam Lunch 001.jpg, Miriam Lunch 002.jpg, Miriam Lunch 003.jpg


Es war wirklich ein Wunder, das die Julie das richtige Album gleich gefunden hatte - wie du weisst, habe ich zu mindest 25 Albums...

Also erzaehle mir, wie du dein Wochenende verbracht hast und wie du dich am Picknick, das deine Kompanie gegeben hatte, unterhieltst?

Gruesse und Kuesse, deine

MUTTI

Jun 22, 2007

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Friday, June 22, 2007 10:17 AM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN
Subject: Zeit ist uneinbringlich...

Mein lieber Sohn,

Ich habe dir dieses profunde Gedicht schon einmal gesandt - es kommt von meinem Stammbuch, in das mein Cousin, Joschi (Walter's Bruder) schon vor langer Zeit (1928) hineingeschrieben hat. Ich koennte es nicht besser sagen:

"Zeit, so sagen die Menschen, ist uneinbringlich!
...und so ist es!
Nuetze den Tag, sonst eilst nutzlos durch Leben dahin!"

(Bitte, uebersetze es sehr vorsichtig!!!)
Genug gesagt! Danke fuer den Anruf -es ist immer gut deine Stimme zu hoeren!
Alles Liebe von deiner MUTTI

Friday, June 22, 2007

Jun 21, 2007

From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearleATearthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, June 21, 2007 7:39 AM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN; Julie
Subject: My Hero, Emerson....

THOUGHT OF THE DAY:

"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Jun 19, 2007

----- Original Message -----
From:
To: romona.washingtonATnewssun.com;larryleveyATearthlink.net
Sent: 4/24/2007 7:36:42 AM
Subject: for Remembrance Day

Dr. Lisa Ruden Earle, with Holocaust Remembrance Day candles burning, talks about her personal experiences as a Holocaust survivor during services at Temple Israel of Highlands County April 20. Larry Levey/News-Sun

Thursday, June 7, 2007

Jun 7, 2007

-----Original Message-----
From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, June 07, 2007 9:09 AM

THOUGHT OF THE DAY:

"The art of medicine consists of keeping the patient amused while nature heals the disease." - Voltaire



-----Original Message-----
From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, June 07, 2007 12:34 PM
To: Dave Ruden
Subject: Re: [SPAM] RE: Fw: Natuur - reflex in het water

I am getting to be the proverbial Arm chair traveler...Between our Israeli Cousin Ilana, who is sending us such gorgeous photos and my two favorite Travelogues on TV I am truly enjoying our so beautiful world! Even more so if I travel through formerly visited countries! I was really truly blessed to see so many fabulous places...

Did you get so see Sally Shoffstall ?

Love MOM



-----Original Message-----
From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Thursday, June 07, 2007 2:55 PM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN
Subject: Still, Miriam...

Incidentally, it was very touching for me to read your tribute to Miriam! You can really express yourself so well in writing!

I didn't realize, what an important role she played in forming your self-confidence and self assurance. Yes, she could really be amazingly convincing in her arguments and compliments, she actually was a great factor in my returning to Jim, after I tried to split the second time and convinced me, that this was not the right turn in the road of life for me to take...I accepted her advice and went back to Jim, as you know.

Looking back now, I can see her points...and I shall miss her wisdom ,her sincerity and her caring...what a truly great Lady and friend!

L.

Jun 6, 2007

-----Original Message-----
From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Tuesday, June 05, 2007 6:29 PM
To: DAVID WELLENS
Subject: Fw: [SPAM] RE: Miriam


Dear David-

My son, David,wrote me this message and I feel, I'd like to share it with you. He truly adored Miriam and he wants to also express his deepest condolences to you and the family!

I do feel privileged to have been able to tell her "Good Bye" in person -she will always be in my heart and memory, she as well as your wonderful Dad!

Question: I will probably want to talk sooner or later to Violet -please, tell me if she was informed about your Mom's passing -I wouldn't want to upset her, if Valerie decided not to tell.

Give my best to Mickey and the rest of the family -thank you for including us in your so warm and meaningful gathering after the funeral!

Love, LISA

Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Jun 5, 2007

-----Original Message-----
From: drlisaearle [mailto:drlisaearle@earthlink.net]
Sent: Monday, June 04, 2007 2:29 PM
To: Dave Ruden; DAVID RUDEN
Subject: Fw: Miriam


This is the little Fare-well message I delivered to say "Good-
By" to a most beloved friend at there Funeral service last Wednesday.

Thought you might like to read it...did quite a few Ad-libs besides this prepared script. I don't quite trust my ancient memory completely any more -on my birthday, when you were present, I only talked about those people who were present and didn't need to prepare anything, just had to look at them....so that was different. I was much too emotional to depend on my antique brain :((((

-------Original Message-------

From: Lisa
Date: 5/29/2007 11:48:50 AM
To: drlisaearle@earthlink.net
Subject: Fw: Miriam


-----Forwarded Message-----
>From: Lisa
>Sent: May 29, 2007 11:47 AM
>To: jruden@earthlink.net
>Subject: Miriam
>
>My dear, beloved Friend of over 60 years, my dear Miriam:
>
>I am here today to thank you for letting me say "Good bye" to you, before you were ready to join your beloved husband, Irving! Eight months ago, after you moved to be near your so caring, wonderful son David, we had missed that visit when I had the accident that landed me in the hospital with a broken neck,which is bedeviling me still. Last Thursday, when we came down for other reasons, we did get that precious chance to tell you how much we loved you - thank you for waiting...
>
>This service for you today is not only to tell you how much you will be missed, but to celebrate your wonderful, rich ,so completely fulfilled, beautiful long life! When my husband Simon Ruden and I arrived and settled in Fort Lauderdale we met the most perfect couple, we thought, Irving Wellens and his beautiful, charming wife, Miriam, who really, in my eyes, was perfection personified. A magnificent mother to two charming, delightful sons, she proofed to be a true blessing to the community. As prsesident of B'nai B'rith, she spread Good Will throughout the community - she even talked me, with heavy accent and all, to folloow her footsteps in her charitable organizations, she was the ultimate Party giver -her lovely home was always a the top of the line, so to speak, for any visitors to drop in any time, in short, she was "Perfection" personified!
>
>Miriam, gratefully,you have been so fulfilled in any human endevour -and we thank the good Lord for this! Though it is hard to say "Good bye" to someone so special, our one comfort today is the fact, that when it is time for all of us to lay down this "Mortal Foil", we will hopefully meet you again, wherever your immortal soul resides. In the meantime, we celebrate your wonderfull life and know, that you are now together again with your beloved, precious husband, Irving!
>
>Not Good bye, Miriam, but "So long"! Wishing you a blessed Journey into Eternity!
>
>Your "forever" friend, LISA
>
>... with special greetings and smiles from Julie, my oh so wonderful daughter, who loves you in a very special way...



Addition by Dave:



Of course I too will miss her. I knew Mirrian and Irving as one of my mother's many many friends. They would be there for many of my mother's large vivacious parties. As it was for me, I look back on those days with great joy and love, but realize that perhaps so many people overwhelmed me a bit, and although I knew the friends she had over, it took me many many years to actually get to "know" them, by name and/or personally.

So it was with Mirriam. One day when my mother was vising me in Boca Raton, perhaps 1993 or 94, I was maybe 30, we (my mother and I) met Mirriam for lunch at the elegant Mizner Park complex. Mirriam lived in Boca, so it was a nice opportunity for them to see each other again. I've always had a pretty good sense of self-worth, and yet some reason I can't explain, this self-worth was lacking in some respects. I felt capable and smart, but not particulary interesting or attractive. Of course, my mother, my wife, they thought differently. But somehow I discounted that as a biased opinion.



So here I met Mirriam with mom. I knew Mirriam, but not well, and probably had not solidly put name to face yet. On this particular occasion, I discovered what a wonderful, elegant, warm person she was. She was much much older than I, and yet was still full of elegance, charm, and beauty. She was so engaging with me that I felt wonderful about myself. I am both ashamed to admit it (because my mother was certainly fully loving and supportive of me), and glad to admit it (because it speaks volumes for the kind of person Mirriam was), but she was perhaps the first person who really allowed me to see myself as fully interesting and handsome. From that day forward, my confidence in my self in this are slowly and inexorably increased. It may sound trivially self-centric, but feeling good about yourself that way is keenly important to a full sense of well being.

I've loved her ever since as one who *saw* me, and helped me *see* myself. Every time I saw Mirriam after that I made a point to return the warmth she had so completely filled me with. I had far too few opportunities to return that warmth.

Monday, June 4, 2007

Jun 4, 2007


...must share...

Roses, sent to me by Marsha Stern ...aren't they magnificent?
Love, MOM

Jun 3, 2007



Having Lunch with old friends is always a special treat!

Here is our picture taken last week with Don McClosky, enjoying a walk through Memory Lane at a famous Fish restaurant...

We spent 10 days in Boca Raton, a most memorable stretch of time, filled with sadness as well as Joy (Miriam Wellens, a most beloved friend,passed on and we went to her funeral and visited afterwards with her wonderful, precious family)



and the joyful occasions, attending the 60th Wedding anniversary of Teddy and Sigi Stern, friends for about 65 years. "Also seeing Lenny Ruden and his son Christopher (my son and grandson) and other friends and relatives...

Truly a full, exciting mini-vacation - but it's good to be home again!

Love to you all, from LISA & JULIE

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Hi Mom,
Welcome Home!

Do you have a photo of Mirriam and Irving you could email to me?
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Thanks -good to be home...among so many others, saw Merry, Lenny (4 times) Christopher, Paula, Eleanor- truly a memorable Mini vacation...I am so blessed to have so many beloved friends and relatives...

Will try to find pictures of Miriam, possible also Irving...also met so many new, interesting people...

Love, MOM